[填空题]We can make mistakes at any age. Some mistakes we make are about money. But most mistakes are about people. "Did Jerry really care when I broke up with Helen When I got that great job, did Jim really feel good about it, as a friend Or did he envy my luck" ______ When we look back. doubts like these can make us feel bad. But when we look back, it’s too late.

• A. It’s telling you to think of all the starving people in the world when you haven’t got a date for Saturday night.
• B. The minute you spend thinking about the real meaning of what people say to you may save another mistake.
• C. And if we don’t really listen we miss the feeling behind the words.
• D. But there’s a bit of envy in those words.
• E. Why do we go wrong about our friends—or our enemies
• F. "And Paul-why didn’t pick up that he was friendly just because I had a car"

We can make mistakes at any age. Some mistakes we make are about money. But most mistakes are about people. "Did Jerry really care when I broke up with Helen When I got that great job, did Jim really feel good about it, as a friend Or did he envy my luck" When we look back, doubts like these can make us feel bad. But when we look back, it’ s too late.
Why do we go wrong about our friends or our enemies Sometimes what people say hides their real meaning. And if we don’ t really listen closely we miss the feeling behind the words. Suppose someone tells you, "You’ re a lucky dog. " That’ s being friendly. But "lucky dog" There’ s a bit of envy in those words. Maybe he doesn’ t see it himself. But bringing in the "dog" puts you down a little. What he may be saying is that he doesn’ t think you deserve your luck.
"Just think of all the things you have to be thankful for" is anot
A. being friendly
B. a bit of envy
C. lucky dog
D. your luck