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Passage Four How Honest Communication Can Save Your Marriage
Throughout my career as a marriage coach and a marriage and family therapist, the number one issue voiced by most couples is "we have trouble communicating." It’s a common complaint. And many couples think they would benefit from communication training.
Many seem to think if they could better express themselves or if their spouse would only listen and understand what they mean then things in the marriage would dramatically improve. "Maybe if I learned to be more assertive and use more ’I’ statements we’d have less problems." While the thought may be genuine and the results of actually implementing some of these techniques may improve the marriage a bit, in my experience the improvements won’t be lasting.
When you get right down to it, communication in marriage is not about being understood by each other; communication is about handling wha
A. you don’t want to tell your secrets to the important person
B. it is difficult to be always honest with the important person
C. the important person’s reaction means more to you
D. you always make mistakes in front of the important person